See the Fear, Not the Anger

We have been so intent on believing that children are angry, that we have failed to see the true emotions driving their behavior. The most focused on feeling of all is anger. This is an indication in itself that we are fearful beings. We are always looking to see anger because it is a threatening feeling that drives threatening behaviors. If we are intent upon seeing something most assuredly it will appear. In this manner anger is no different from fear or from love for that matter. What we focus on the most is what we see. See fear, not anger and you will find the way home for your child.

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